Silicon Valley home buyers sit on pins & needles once they have written their contract to purchase property.  They wait and wonder and may have trouble sleeping while they expect a response. This is normal, of course. It’s hard to wait.

What happens after the Silicon Valley real estate contract is signed?

Sometimes, offers are presented in person by your buyer’s agent directly to the listing agent and sellers and there may be a nearly immediate response, or at least something soon after – within a few hours.  More often, though, now offers are presented by email to the listing agent, who in turn gets it to the seller either at a personal meeting or also by email.  Most of the time there is a counter offer, but sometimes there was enough communication ahead of time between the agents that in fact an offer is written in an acceptable fashion and is simply accepted by the sellers without any counter (or there were multiple offers and one was good enough to accept without a counter).

Some real estate trainers insist that every offer should get a counter offer – sellers should never simply accept the contract presented by the buyers

Some real estate trainers (who are teaching Silicon Valley real estate agents what to do) insist that every offer should always be countered so that buyers do not later worry that they overpaid. “Make them work for it” so they don’t have buyer’s remorse is the theory.  The bigger the fear of “buyer’s remorse”, the more likely that the agent will further negotiate the offer – at least a little. (more…)

Buying and selling homes is stressful no matter who you are or what the occasion may be.  It is even more difficult for those for whom English is not their native language and for whom the US is not their native land.

First there’s a language challenge (depending on English fluency).  Even more, there’s a cultural challenge in terms of how homes are bought and sold. Add the normal stress to the cross-cultural confusion and there’s a recipe for misunderstanding, bafflement, surprises and upset.  One of the biggest areas for clashes is how negotiations are carried out.

I have had the pleasure of traveling to many places around the globe and to live in Italy for the better part of a year while in college (in Florence, and yes, I loved it).  I remember very vividly some of my own cultural frustrations and although I was fairly fluent, missing a whole lot of social cues. I had to work to learn to negotiate for simple things like fruit and sweaters in the open air markets.  And I was just 20, not trying to purchase anything as significant as a house or condo.

My clients today come from all over. Typically, at any given time, more than half of my clients are foreign* (and I love working with them and hearing about their experiences, customs and traditions).  Every once in awhile,  we discover that buying and selling expectations are vastly different from Silicon Valley to wherever they came from. Here are a few:

1. Expecting to negotiate at every turn, starting from the time the seller accepts the buyer’s offer and continuing until close of escrow (not done here: you negotiate at most two times – first when writing and countering offers and second prior to removing contingencies, if something new is learned during the course of the inspections.  If you negotiate at every opportunity, you will have everyone angry at you!)
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Home sellers want to get as much as possible for their homes. Home buyers want to get their homes for the least amount possible.  “Market value” is when buyers and sellers agree – even if one of them is a little reluctant. This is true universally, whether you’re in the market in San Jose, Saratoga, Los Gatos or anywhere in Silicon Valley (and just as true elsewhere in California or elsewhere in the world).

Real estate agents don’t control the value of the home. However, good agents can maximize the potential of the market. Homes are never worth just one set price. There’s usually a range within which terms (or conditions) can move the value up or down. It’s “price and terms”.

For instance, let’s say you have an upscale home that’s worth about 1.5 million, more or less. If an offer were to come in contingent upon the sale of another home, in a normal or balanced market, the seller would probably want more than the 1.5 because of the uncertainty. Perhaps that home would sell, if contingent, for 1.6 million (only for illustration). On the other hand, if an all-cash buyer showed up, could close in 5 days (I have seen it happen) and allowed a free rentback for a month, the home might sell for closer to 1.4 million – if the seller really needed a fast close to prevent foreclosure or to secure the deal on another home. It’s always about price and terms.

Want a good deal on price? Sweeten the terms.

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